What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 05:05
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
In the TV show Supernatural, why is God portrayed as cruel?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
Why do you think Democrat favorability ratings are so low?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
Do any other guys like to eat cum of another man from their wife's pussy?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
What are the popular niches to talk about as a content creator on the social media platform?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
39~ What are your love languages?
Please share Did you stop?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
Why were the Japanese soldiers in WW II so hesitant to surrender in battle?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
Why are black women the largest unmarried group in the United States of America?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
Would you read them together?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
If yes, what?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
29- How superstitious are you?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
If you win, what will you make them do?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
How old are you? Male or Female?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
Family Relation Age Play
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
52~ What are your hobbies?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
Any that are a turn off?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
*** Random Questions ***
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
The Ice Breaker Questions
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
*** Questions About Me ***
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
Nothing too Serious
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
What is your favorite position? Why?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
Any that are a turn off?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?